{"id":8555,"date":"2022-10-21T12:25:51","date_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:25:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/?p=8555"},"modified":"2022-10-21T12:25:51","modified_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:25:51","slug":"spending-time-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/spending-time-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Spending Time Away"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>As I write this, I am almost done with some time off.\u00a0 When I write \u201ctime off\u201d I suspect the word \u201cvacation\u201d probably comes to mind for many of you.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">What is the purpose of a vacation?&nbsp; When I think of \u201cvacation\u201d, I think of time spent travelling for fun or maybe getting a project done.&nbsp; Well, the last few days for me have not been about getting a project done.&nbsp; However, neither have my days away been to go someplace \u201cfun\u201d.&nbsp; Well, sort of.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I have been someplace people go for fun.\u00a0 I have been at Letchworth State Park.\u00a0 I rented a cabin and walked some trails with some great views.\u00a0 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102829-1-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102829-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8559\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102829-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102829-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102829-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>From Scenic Outlook Near Castile Entrance Looking Upstream<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102822-1-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"2560\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102822-1-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8558\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102822-1-scaled.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221019_102822-1-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>From Scenic Outlook Near Castile Entrance Looking Downstream<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">However, I did not come to Letchworth to have fun.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I came for some <em>retreat<\/em> time.&nbsp; I came to get away, rest, and find God.&nbsp; It wasn\u2019t that I lost God.&nbsp; I\u2019ve been busy and distracted.&nbsp; I needed to get recentered and find peace.&nbsp; The search for God is what made this time a retreat rather than a vacation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">People come on vacation to Letchworth State Park to have fun hiking and enjoying the scenery.&nbsp; I enjoy the walks.&nbsp; Even in the midst of a busy day at the parish, I try to walk, not simply for fun or physical exercise but because it is where I find peace.&nbsp; Walks can be an encounter with God.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">At Letchworth State Park, the scenery is beautiful in its physical aspects.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Yet, the beauty that I seek on retreat goes deeper than physical beauty.\u00a0 When I look at the gorge and waterfalls, I see power that formed these that reveals God\u2019s hand in nature.\u00a0 It is beautiful because God made it this way.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_094915-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"2560\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_094915-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8562\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_094915-scaled.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_094915-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Looking Upstream Middle Falls in Middle and Upper Falls barely seen<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">On retreat I also spend time a lot of time in prayer.&nbsp; When one is on vacation, one should pray (as one should always pray) but on retreat, prayer is central.&nbsp; On retreat, I spent more time than usual in prayer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_100203-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_100203-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8561\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_100203-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/blog.renewaloffaith.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/20221020_100203-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/a><figcaption>Rock with Quote<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">On vacation one travels.&nbsp; The destination can be a holy site such as going to the Holy Land, Rome, or even a shrine that might be within driving distance.&nbsp; Such vacations can (and should) have spiritual value but it may not be spiritual for everyone.&nbsp; For instance, one can travel to Rome to see the beautiful art without putting God at the center.&nbsp; One can travel to the Holy Land to study history rather than making a holy pilgrimage to the place where Jesus endured his Passion.&nbsp; (I pray for those who go to such places for non-spiritual reasons, that their trip help open them to God\u2019s presence in these places.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Vacations can be educational.&nbsp; As I already said, a trip to the Holy Land can teach us history.&nbsp; A trip to Rome can be educational for students of art.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Depending on where one goes on vacation, one may choose to read.&nbsp; It might be reading a mystery novel for fun or it might be reading something educational.&nbsp; On retreat, my reading focuses on spirituality.&nbsp; Of course, as a priest who loves to learn, most of the reading I do is about faith.&nbsp; On retreat, I look specifically for books that will help me improve my prayer life over knowledge.&nbsp; For example, this week I started reading St. Francis De Sales\u2019 <em>Introduction to the Devout Life<\/em>.&nbsp; I\u2019ll probably use it as material for future blog articles, presentations, and homilies to help others.&nbsp; Reading it now helps me grow in my own spirituality.&nbsp; This is why I see this week as a retreat, not simply a vacation.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">On retreat rest is an important item.&nbsp; We need to be well-rested to rebuild our connection to God.&nbsp; On vacation, one might seek physical rest.&nbsp; On retreat, the rest goes deeper.&nbsp; On retreat we ask God to take our burdens away so we can focus on him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Retreats are not just for priests, deacons, and religious.&nbsp; Holiness is something we are all called to, no matter our state in life.&nbsp; The document, <em>Lumen Gentium<\/em>, from the Second Vatican Council speaks of the universal call to holiness.&nbsp; How each person lives out holiness depends on their state in life but, again, we are all called to be holy.&nbsp; A retreat can help us with this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Retreats come in different forms.&nbsp; During a preached retreat, there are speakers who give talks on topics of faith.&nbsp; While a preached retreat may share commonalities with a conference, the focus is different.&nbsp; A conference generally focuses on knowledge and understanding while a preached retreat is geared to improving our prayer life.&nbsp; If you have never been on a retreat, a preached retreat can be a good place to start.&nbsp; A preached retreat may or may not include silence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">One can also make a directed or private retreat.&nbsp; Either are a time of silence with prayer and spiritual reading.&nbsp; The difference between a directed retreat and a private retreat is that on a directed retreat the person meets each day with a spiritual director who serves as a guide to help them see where God is leading them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">How long should a retreat be?&nbsp; There is no set length.&nbsp; If you have never been on retreat, you should begin with a single overnight or a weekend retreat.&nbsp; Over time, you may lengthen it to 5-8 days.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">What about location?&nbsp; As I said, I have spent the last few days at Letchworth State Park.&nbsp; I would not suggest this for your first retreat.&nbsp; Otherwise, it might be more of a vacation than a retreat.&nbsp; For anyone who is making a retreat for the first time, I encourage you to do so at a place specifically setup for retreats.&nbsp; Such places help set the proper environment (with less distractions).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">We all need time away from busy lives.&nbsp; We need time to unwind.&nbsp; Do you need a vacation to unwind or a retreat to grow in faith?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Peace,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fr. 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