We all need keep learning throughout our lives.\u00a0 Learning about faith doesn’t end with Confirmation or when religion classes end.\u00a0 I have a master’s degree in theology and I feel like I just know the tip of the iceberg of what our faith has to offer.\u00a0 With that in mind I attended day one of our diocesan “Households of Faith” annual conference.<\/p>\n
I went to three different workshops.\u00a0 The first one was not actually part of the conference.\u00a0 It was a meeting of pastoral leaders like myself in relatively new assignments.\u00a0 It is part of a two-year leadership process I have been part of since I became a pastor.\u00a0 This particular workshop helped us explore ways to seek feedback from staff and parishioners on how I am doing in my leadership role as a pastor.<\/p>\n
The second workshop I attended was on evangelizing families given by Dr. Jo Ann Paradise.\u00a0 One of the points presented in this talk was on the importance of questions.\u00a0 The first part of this is knowing what questions to ask, not just questions testing facts but questions that make people think like “What do you think the Pharisees thought when Jesus said…..”\u00a0 The second part of “questions” was that evangelization isn’t about asking questions (as teachers) that we have answers to.\u00a0 We need to ask questions that lead people to open their hearts to Jesus leading to a deeper relationship with Jesus.\u00a0 I look at the importance of questions another way when I give a presentation.\u00a0 I believe that when people ask questions when I give a presentation, it means that what I have talked about means something to them.\u00a0 When nobody asks a question, it might be because I did a really good presentation that answered all their questions but more likely is that it didn’t touch their hearts in a new way that evangelized them.<\/p>\n
The third presentation (and keynote address) was given by Fr. Michael White and Tom Corcoran, authors of the book Rebuilt: Awakening the Faithful, Reaching the Lost, Making the Church Matter.<\/em>\u00a0 They spoke of the story of how they turned the parish around where they served in Maryland.\u00a0 Discussion points included reasons why people don’t come to church, number of programs, and what it means to be church, all of which can be found in their book.\u00a0 There was discussion about what we have “to compete with” such as sports, work, and leisure to get people to come to church.\u00a0 There is no doubt that these things are drawing people away from church.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Because they feel they get more out of them than they do out of coming to church.<\/p>\n We might often ask the question “Why don’t people come to church?” when really maybe the question they have is “Why should I come to church?”\u00a0 Translation – we have to make church a place people want to be<\/em>.\u00a0 THIS DOES NOT MEAN CATERING TO THEIR BELIEFS!<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0<\/em> We need to hold fast to the teachings of Jesus, even when it isn’t what people want to hear.\u00a0 What I do mean is that we need to make church a place where people feel welcome.\u00a0 We need to be a church where people care about each other.\u00a0 We need homilies that are relevant to people’s lives.\u00a0 People will come to church when they feel it makes a difference in their lives.<\/p>\n Sometimes, we think we need to offer more “programs” to draw people in but if we aren’t making the Sunday Mass a place they want to be, why would we expect them to come to anything else? It all starts with Sunday Mass.<\/p>\n What can you do to help make our church a place people want to be?\u00a0 Have you ever talked to the family sitting next to you in church?\u00a0 Being welcoming might just start with saying “hello” and asking “how they are doing.”\u00a0 It might be thinking about how you react when their little child starts to cry?\u00a0 Is it distracting and annoying when the child cries?\u00a0 It certainly can be but there is another way to look at it.\u00a0 I want to see the little children in church.\u00a0 Why?\u00a0 Because if there are no little children in the church then there is no hope for the future.\u00a0 We need to remember a child\u00a0only cries when they need something.\u00a0Sometimes families with little children who cry or other another annoyances in church stop coming because they feel unwelcome.\u00a0 Some of these might say they will start coming again when the children are older and behave better.\u00a0 Some of them never come back.\u00a0 The only way the children are going to learn how to behave in church is to come.\u00a0 I want to see the children in church and so does Jesus.<\/p>\n “People were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them, and when the disciples saw this, they rebuked them.\u00a0 Jesus, however, called the children to himself and said, \u201cLet the children come to me and do not prevent them; for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.\u00a0\u00a0 Amen, I say to you, whoever does not accept the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it<\/em>.\u201d (Luke 18:15-17<\/a>)<\/p>\n Peace,<\/p>\n Fr. Jeff<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" We all need keep learning throughout our lives.\u00a0 Learning about faith doesn’t end with Confirmation or when religion classes end.\u00a0 I have a master’s degree in theology and I feel like I just know the tip of the iceberg of what our faith has to offer.\u00a0 With that in mind I attended day one of …<\/p>\n